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Maritza’s Recommendations

Books

Mental Health

American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Attention: A Love Story

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Rating: 2 out of 5.
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Gender: A Graphic Guide

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Get a Life, Chloe Brown 

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Heart Talk: Poetic Wisdom for a Better Life

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Rating: 2 out of 5.
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Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Red, White & Royal Blue

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The Gift of Story: A Wise Tale About What is Enough

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The New Queer Conscience

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The Princess Diarist

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Sex Object

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda 

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Sing, Unburied, Sing

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Uniquely Human: A Different Way of Seeing Autism

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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When They Call You a Terrorist: A Black Lives Matter Memoir

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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When We Collided

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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WOLFPACK: How to Come Together, Unleash Our Power, and Change the Game

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Sexuality

American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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And Tango Makes Three

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Check, Please!, Book 2: Sticks & Scones

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Date Me, Bryson Keller

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Gender: A Graphic Guide

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up with Me

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Leah on the Offbeat

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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My Princess Boy

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Queer: A Graphic History

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Red, White & Royal Blue

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Sex Object

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda 

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The Great American Whatever

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The New Queer Conscience

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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LGBTQIA

American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Check, Please!, Book 2: Sticks & Scones

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Date Me, Bryson Keller

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Gender: A Graphic Guide

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Laura Dean Keeps Breaking Up with Me

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Leah on the Offbeat

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Rating: 3 out of 5.

When They Call You a Terrorist: A Black Lives Matter Memoir

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Nothing to See Here

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Only Mostly Devastated

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Rating: 2 out of 5.
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Princess Princess Ever After

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Pumpkinheads

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Queer: A Graphic History

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Red, White & Royal Blue

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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The New Queer Conscience

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The Prince and the Dressmaker

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Wayward Son 

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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WOLFPACK: How to Come Together, Unleash Our Power, and Change the Game

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Sex

American Hookup: The New Culture of Sex on Campus

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Gender: A Graphic Guide

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Get a Life, Chloe Brown 

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Happy Hour at Casa Dracula

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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Milk and Honey

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Outlander (Outlander, #1)

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Queer: A Graphic History

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Red, White & Royal Blue

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Rating: 5 out of 5.
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Ruby Red (Precious Stone Trilogy, #1)

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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Sex Object

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda 

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Rating: 4 out of 5.

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The New Queer Conscience

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Rating: 4 out of 5.
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The Right Swipe 

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Rating: 3 out of 5.
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What Do Women Want? Adventures in the Science of Female Desire

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Rating: 2 out of 5.
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Music

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Worksheets by Maritza:

Maritza makes visual resources/worksheets for clients to use in session or for reinforcement outside of session. Some of these are available to the public here, with instructions/guidance on the individual files.

  • The GPS Coordinate To My Heart
  • Ten Key Relational Needs
  • 76 Ways You Can Meet My Needs
  • Top 10 Relational Needs
  • Developing Relational Skill of Emotional Responding
  • Developing Intimacy Skills- Emotional Responding
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Developing-Relational-Skils-of-Emotional-RespondingDownload
Developing-Intimacy-Skills-Emotional-RespondingDownload